Don’t take it personally, but here is why I stopped reading your blog. http://mhyatt.us/dMyPm8
I am a very loyal person. I have been married to the same woman for 32 years. Most of my close, personal friends have been friends for a decade or more. I have gone to the same church for 27 years. Once I let you into my life, I almost never ask you to leave.
But I just unsubscribed to your blog.
This wasn’t an easy decision. Your RSS feed has been in my Google Reader for a long time. Months. Perhaps years. But I finally clicked on theUnsubscribe button. I’ve had enough.
Why? It’s likely for one of these six reasons:
- Your titles make me yawn. Look, I am scanning a couple hundred blog posts and news items a day. If your title doesn’t pull me into the content, what will? You need to spend as much time on the headline as you do the article. Don’t be cute; tempt me.
- Your posts are boring. I have tried to be interested. Really, I have. But you don’t use any stories, illustrations, or metaphors. Your prose is preachy and didactic. And dry as dust. You’re making my eyes glaze over.
- Your posts are too infrequent. You haven’t posted in weeks. Or months. Like so many would-be bloggers, you started well, but you quit too early. I’m sure you have legitimate reasons, but I am tired of waiting. Nobody cares. Post or perish.
- Your posts are too long. I know you want to do the topic justice. Prove your point. Consider every aspect. Answer the critics. And leave no stone unturned. But, honestly, you are wearing me out. If I want to read a book, I’ll buy one. You’re supposed to be writing a blog. A good rule of thumb? No more than 500 words.
- Your posts are too unfocused. One day you’re blogging on this. The next day you’re blogging on that. What is your blog about? Please remind me, because I am lost in the forest of your eclectic interests. You’re not a renaissance man (or woman). You are undisciplined.
- You don’t participate in the conversation. You either don’t allow comments or don’t participate in them. Your posts are hit-and-run. You come into the room, make your little speech, and leave the building. I’m sorry, but that is so last-century. You’re not that important.
Do you agree ? If you say yes, I have 2 options, either to stop writing or do exactly the opposite of what is mentioned above.
2 thoughts on “Dont take it personally”
Looks like a gurukilli to writing a good blog.
I agree when the posts are written with definite objectives like getting more ‘likes’, ‘clicks’ or other commercial revenues. I think many have the above objective but do what is said by you due to lack of experience or design knowledge. It is a crisp check list for everyone.
I write freely when I feel strongly about something, spend lot of time to research and the focus is to “share” the feelings or “ideas”. In such cases, some of the above would happen. What ever is the purpose of writing, if one does opposite to what mentioned above, the readers will have a better experience visiting the site.
I suggest continue writing which is important and try to do exactly the opposite of what is mentioned above.